The word emotion comes from the Latin verb "emovo"
which means to move out of. Emotions and feelings are two words
which we often use interchangeably. A friend of mine gave me a
definition of these words which I find extremely helpful. "A
feeling is an awareness and an emotion is the quality of energy
generated by that awareness."
For example, when you walk down a dark alley late at night and
feel fear, fear is the quality of energy generated by an awareness
that the alley may not be safe. When you are told to pay attention
to your emotions or feelings, what is meant is to pay attention
to the awareness behind the emotion.
Emotions never lie and are never wrong. NO ONE has a right to
say to you that you should not feel the way you do. The awareness
behind the emotion comes from your Subconscious which knows only
truth. Your emotions can be a source of information (actually
they ARE a source of information; you CAN avail yourself of this
source if you so choose.) So emotions are energies which begin
as an awareness and move out of us from our inner Selves.
Intuition, hunches, gut feelings, psychic ability and sixth sense
are all names which we give to these awarenesses when we are not
distracted by the emotion generated by them. In the Age of Aquarius
we are developing our intuitive abilities, our sixth sense. The
road to this development lies through our emotions. Unfortunately,
most of us are taught to ignore, control or suppress our emotions.
We are taught that they are bad and are not displayed (acknowledged)
by mature men and women.
Many psychic and intuitive people whom I have known are what I
call "feeling" people. They go with the flow of feeling
or emotional energy. They are not attached to the emotion, but
allow themselves to experience or feel the energy in the moment
and then let it go.
Many of us have been experiencing strong emotions the last two
years and especially the last several months. We have been experiencing
situations which call up extreme emotions, some of which are generated
by happenings long since past and forgotten. In the attempt to
bring our inner Selves into our outer Consciousness, we must first
clear out our emotional baggage. Our emotional Self lies between
our Conscious Mind and our Subconscious Mind. So, to clear a channel
to our Subconscious Mind, we must first release the pent up emotion
which we have stored there.
By the time we reach adulthood, most of us have much "emotional
sludge" which we have never expressed or "dealt"
with. We are undergoing situations in our lives now which are
giving us the opportunity to release much repressed emotional
energy. This is pure energy and often any relation to the original
triggering event or awareness is long gone. We react to something
all out of proportion to the current situation. The purpose of
this is to let go.
For the most part we do not have to "deal" with the
original trauma. All we have to do is release the stored up energy.
But for most of us we need some kind of ritual. We seek counseling
or therapy, we take drugs, or attend New Age seminars to find
that magic which will allow us to feel better. When you are feeling
intensely emotional, look to see if there is some awareness associated
with it. If there is, then pay attention to it. If not, then create
your own ritual to release the energy.
Lead yourself through a guided meditation or visualization. Some
suggested visuals might be: To see a ball of energy gradually
grow in the area of your Solar Plexus and then throw it away from
you , feeling a release of emotional energy as you do so. See
yourself as a young child crying and gradually relaxing until
all of the anger, hurt, etc. is gone; and then repeating it at
ever increasing ages until you are at your current age. Imagine
a siphon going from your belly button down into the Earth siphoning
off all excess emotional energy. Rent several sad videos and cry
as you watch them. Take a deep breath and on the exhalation feel
emotional energy flow out of you; repeat as often as is necessary.
Or invent something which will work for you.
Okay, now you have gotten rid of all that old emotional energy
and are as open as a new born babe. Don't assume your work is
done. We naturally fall back into old habit patterns UNLESS we
make the Conscious choice and take the determined action to create
new habits. What you do now is to give yourself permission to
feel all the emotion in the moment in which it is generated. After
a while you will notice you are no longer so caught up in the
emotional quality of the energy and can now look beyond the emotion
to the awareness behind it. You now have both feet on the path
to becoming psychic. Co-incidentally you will notice that you
are becoming healthier and happier.
Anger is a misunderstood emotion. Actually it isn't an emotion
at all. Anger is a rapid, often sudden, and powerful release of
pent up emotional energy. You must realize that you are not "angry"
at whatever or whoever triggered the release. It or they
merely got in the way when the straw that broke your emotional
dam was placed upon you. Very seldom are we angry at the person
at whom anger is directed. We will save ourselves much distress
and many friendships if we allow ourselves to blow up but not
AT anybody. And then apologize and explain that you were just
blowing off steam and are not mad at them.
If you are the person who is in the way when someone vents their
spleen, remember not to take it personal. Don't laugh, but do
allow the other person to release their pent up emotional energy.
Once the anger has been expressed, let it be. Go back to acting
natural.
Emotions are the key to getting in touch with our inner Selves
and developing our sixth sense. To be complete and whole within
ourselves, we must allow ourselves to release all of the old emotional
energy stored within our Emotional Bodies and to express in the
moment the emotional energy generated by our awarenesses. This
allows us to be in the flow of energy and to be cognizant of our
awarenesses (intuitions.)